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3 Sure Fire Ways to Get Bloggers to Ignore Your Emails

Posted: 21 Apr 2014 06:45 AM PDT

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Are you a blogger and gave gotten a random request from someone you don’t know asking you to link to their site?

Or better yet, asking if they can guest post?

Yet… when you read the post, it looks like it’s been written by a junior high school drop out in some 3rd world country?

Yeah, I get shit tons of that.

Shady affiliate networks, advertising platforms, finance products, insurance, viagra, dating site.. Ugh…

They rarely contribute any good articles.

And even if they DO write good stuff, they want a back link to some really shady looking site that I would never link to even if I get paid to do it.

Please, where on earth do these people learn their manners from?

Here’s the thing.

Most of you already know how this works… yet most of you choose to ignore the rules.

So, you still wanna get ignored?

No problem. Here’s how.

1) “Give Me, Give Me”

For example, do you go on a first date with a girl and ask her to come home with you THAT night?

There’s 99% chances that you won’t. On top of that, she’ll probabaly never call you again.

But even if you do succeed, do you really want to have a long term relationship with her? What makes you think you’re the 1st one she’s done this with? Yeah, probably not.

So either way, you really CAN’T win by asking for the close first. You have to give first. Get to know her.. build rapport, and heaven forbid, even give her something.

If you’re reaching out to a media person (journalist, blogger, youtuber, or some other social media maven) and you ask for something, you’re asking him/her to risk the very reputation he/she has built up to showcase you.

Stop talking “me me me”.

UGH.

Give me something first. Get my trust. Shit, write me a well thought article.

Have you noticed I blog on ShoeMoney a lot?

It’s because Jeremy trusts me because I’ve been writing for his blog for MONTHS.

2) Copy/Paste Job

Hello,

I am really satisfied with your blog content, your posts are really good and you are keeping it well. I would like to publish my post on your blog (as guest post) with my website link. Mostly I create about educational and student related subjects. Please let me know if you are recognizing guest posts and I’m ready to discuss my content, I guarantee it with unique and quality content.

Looking forward to get your reply.

Thank You

Yeah, if you’re a girl doing online dating, I’m sure you know Mr.Ctrl-C/Ctrl-V.

Shotgun approach, saying the same ol’ stuff to everyone in the neighborhood.

Seriously, if you go to networking events, do you say the SAME thing to everyone?

Remember telemarkters? They were NOTORIOUS for that.


Notice how I write?

This is how I talk.

And that’s why people read what I write.

If you’re gonna ask for someone to do a favor for you, be normal and talk normal.

3) Do You Even Know Who I Am?

Good morning FSC?

I wanted to commend you guys on the great piece about the 3 most overlooked A/B tests. I found it really interesting and insightful, then sent it on over to the marketing team I liked it so much, so thanks for the great read!

Anyway, I wanted to get in touch with you in order to pitch an article I’d like to write for Fresh Super Cool. I was thinking something in regards to how a business can improve its business’s online reputation through Instagram, because I think it hasn’t been touched on a ton yet.

Let me know what you think, I’d love to discuss the idea more and some of the specifics. Thanks for the time!

All the best

I have a freakin’ name.

If you go to my awesome marketing blog, I have my face plastered ALL over it.

Would a girl go home with you even if you don’t even know who she is?

Yeah, those are called prostitutes.

She’ll take your money and give you a nice fat genital herpes that make you pee fire every morning.

Do you want that? Me neither.

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Is it Time for a Blogging Break? Here’s How to Take One - DailyBlogTips

Is it Time for a Blogging Break? Here’s How to Take One - DailyBlogTips


Is it Time for a Blogging Break? Here’s How to Take One

Posted: 21 Apr 2014 06:23 AM PDT

In every blogger's life, there'll be times when blogging is harder than usual.

You might be tempted to keep going; after all, you know it's important to keep up a steady stream of content, and you might be worried that you'll lose your hard-earned readers if you stop posting for a while.

The problem is, struggling on could mean that you put out lower-quality content than usual – damaging your blog and your reputation.

There's no blogging law that says you can't take a break … and sometimes the best thing to do is to step away from your blog for a few weeks or even months.

Why You Might Need a Break

There are plenty of reasons why bloggers stop blogging temporarily: these are three of the most common.

#1: Major Life Events

If you're going through something really big in your life, it may well be the case that you don't have the time and/or energy to blog.

Hopefully, this is something positive (e.g. landing the job of your dreams), but it could also be something negative (e.g. a family member's illness). Either way, your blog isn't going to be your top priority for a while.

#2: Feeling Burned Out

Posting regularly, whether that's daily or weekly, takes up a fair bit of time and energy. Sometimes, especially if you're not getting quick results, you may simply feel discouraged and burned out.

If you're thinking about giving up, then taking a temporary break could recharge you enough to carry on. You might also find you get some new ideas while you're away, helping you return with fresh enthusiasm and even with a better long-term plan for your blogging.

#3: Working on a Relaunch

Maybe there's nothing wrong with you … it's your blog that's the problem. If you've decided on a change in direction (e.g. a broader or more narrow topic), or a radical design overhaul, you might need to stop blogging for a few weeks to give yourself time to prepare for the relaunch.

Having a few silent weeks on your blog can help prepare readers for the change to come, and will hopefully give you enough mental distance from your blog to make good decisions.

How to Take a Blogging Break (Without Losing Your Readers)

The key don't here is that you shouldn't just stop posting one day and not return to your blog for three months. Loyal readers won't just be disappointed not to have new posts – they may well be anxious about what's happened to you, especially if you normally blog on a very regular schedule.

You'll also risk alienating new readers who come by in your absence; if they see that the last post was dated a couple of months ago, they may think the blog's been completely abandoned.

So here's what you need to do before you take off:

#1: Put Up a Post to Say You're Away

It's usually a good idea to explain your reasons for taking a break, though of course you can be vague if it's something personal that you don’t want to talk about (e.g. "family commitments" or "a busy period at work").

Ideally, your reason for taking a break will be something your readers will support. At the start of 2013, I took a few months off from my blog Aliventures while I had a baby. My readers were all really supportive … and were excited to see the photos when I came back.

Whatever your reasons for going, it's a good idea to use your "bye for now" post to:

  • Link to some key posts on your blog (this is handy for new readers).
  • Link to your products / services.
  • Let readers know roughly when you expect to be back.
  • Give your RSS link and email sign-up – you may even see subscriptions go up while you're away, as readers will want to be alerted as soon as you're back.

#2: Update Your About and Contact Pages

Chances are, if you're taking a break from your blog, you're probably not going to have time to answer lots of questions by email. This means it's a good idea to add a sentence at the top of your About page (one of the most-read pages on your blog) and your Contact page to explain that you're currently taking some time away from blogging.

Depending on your blog, you may need to update a Contact form to direct to a colleague or assistant who'll be answering emails while you're away. If no-one will be answering for some time, it's probably best to remove the contact form and set up an out-of-office reply on your email account.

#3: Consider Using Guest Posters

This definitely isn't a must but it's something you might want to think about – inviting guest posters to cover the period while you're away.

If you're taking a short break (e.g. two weeks off) this could work well, by keeping up the momentum and allowing some fresh voices and perspectives to invigorate your blog. If you've never used guest posters before, though, or if you're going to be away for a long time, you'll probably want to avoid this – it could prompt readers to unsubscribe as they signed up for your content.

 

Have you ever taken a blogging break, or have you seen other bloggers do this successfully? Let us know your best tips (or your lessons learned!) in the comments.

 

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